You may have heard that saying many times by now or
not! LOL. The amazing thing about knowing the concept and really feeling
it makes all the difference. The way we create is with the feeling even
more than just the thought. If you know something and really believe it,
that is what shows up in your life. When we really believe, we have a
lot of emotion behind that belief. The concept is the beginning of
understanding that we create, perceive and experience our reality by
what we believe to be true. To actually get the concept from your head
to your heart can take some time and practice.
The first thing you really need to know is what you
believe to begin with. If we didn't know we believe that you can't trust people, when we meet someone we may not know, just how wary we really are of trusting them. Especially since
we feel we have trusted others and they have hurt us. I often hear
people say "I'm very trusting. I trust people until they prove they
can't be trusted which they do all the time." This common belief that we
can't trust is often taught to keep us safe from getting taken advantage
of and hurt. (For the most part, most people really aren't trying to do that.) A lot of us have been taught you can only trust your
family, they are the only ones that will be there for you. Who do you
suppose are the first people to hurt your feelings and make you feel
like you can't trust them? Your family! They are the closet people to
you and the ones that matter the most especially when we are young. So
if we feel we can't even trust them and we have been taught they are the
only people you can, what are the chances we will go out in the world
very wary of trusting anyone and get hurt again. This belief is strong
and
has a strong foundation in our society today. So each time you meet
someone and feel that is what is happening again, you cement the belief in as
truth! We are very good at proving our beliefs, it is actually our job.
This is a very simplistic view just to give you an idea, of course there is more to how we do this and continue to prove we are right!
When working on creating our life the universe is there
to help. We are creating whether we know it or not. Pay attention to
what you put out with not just your thoughts, but with your feelings.
You can easily start to see that what you feel and think: is the way you
are experiencing your life. To change it and create something new we
have to change the old to something new with not only the way we think
but the emotions to go along with the new thoughts. Staying positive
can be difficult at times but if your thought process is only on the
negative, it will just help you continue to create from the old belief. It will then show up again and the vicious cycle continues, keeping you stuck feeling that this is true and that's all there is to it. This in turn may make us close our hearts feeling like that is what you should learn from this situation, never knowing that it is our perception from our belief that is helping us create it again.
It is time for us to take the next step on our journey because whether we like it or not, all of our beliefs are hitting us upside our heads, hopefully helping us to finally learn and stop repeating the same old patterns. Trust your intuition,
somewhere inside you know there is more, that we are all here for a
bigger reason, a bigger purpose. Embrace the lessons that we are here to learn, open your heart as love has always been the answer. Love to you all on this amazing journey of transition! Janice