You Can Only See It When You Believe It!

 You may have heard that saying many times by now or not! LOL. The amazing thing about knowing the concept and really feeling it makes all the difference. The way we create is with the feeling even more than just the thought. If you know something and really believe it, that is what shows up in your life. When we really believe, we have a lot of emotion behind that belief. The concept is the beginning of understanding that we create, perceive and experience our reality by what we believe to be true.  To actually get the concept from your head to your heart can take some time and practice. 

The first thing you really need to know is what you believe to begin with. If we didn't know we  believe that you can't trust people, when we meet someone we may not know, just how wary we really are of trusting them. Especially since we feel we have trusted others and they have hurt us.  I often hear people say "I'm very trusting. I trust people until they prove they can't be trusted which they do all the time." This common belief that we can't trust is often taught to keep us safe from getting taken advantage of and hurt. (For the most part, most people really aren't trying to do that.) A lot of us have been taught you can only trust your family, they are the only ones that will be there for you. Who do you suppose are the first people to hurt your feelings and make you feel like you can't trust them?  Your family!  They are the closet people to you and the ones that matter the most especially when we are young. So if we feel we can't even trust them and we have been taught they are the only people you can, what are the chances we will go out in the world very wary of trusting anyone and get hurt again.  This belief is strong and has a strong foundation in our society today. So each time you meet someone and feel that is what is happening again, you cement the belief in as truth! We are very good at proving our beliefs, it is actually our job. This is a very simplistic view just to give you an idea, of course there is more to how we do this and continue to prove we are right!

 When working on creating our life the universe is there to help. We are creating whether we know it or not. Pay attention to what you put out with not just your thoughts, but with your feelings. You can easily start to see that what you feel and think: is the way you are experiencing your life.  To change it and create something new we have to change the old to something new with not only the way we think but the emotions to go along with the new thoughts.  Staying positive can be difficult at times but if your thought process is only on the negative,  it will just help you continue to create from the old belief. It will then show up again and the vicious cycle continues, keeping you stuck feeling that this is true and that's all there is to it. This in turn may make us close our hearts feeling like that is what you should learn from this situation, never knowing that it is our perception from our belief that is helping us create it again.  

It is time for us to take the next step on our journey because whether we like it or not, all of our beliefs are hitting us upside our heads, hopefully helping us to finally learn and stop repeating the same old patterns. Trust your intuition, somewhere inside you know there is more, that we are all here for a bigger reason, a bigger purpose. Embrace the lessons that we are here to learn, open your heart as love has always been the answer.  Love to you all on this amazing journey of transition!  Janice